[https://www.nytimes.com/2020/12/18/well/family/black-teenagers-driving.html?action=click&module=Features&pgtype=Homepage](https://www.nytimes.com/2020/12/18/well/family/black-teenagers-driving.html?action=click&module=Features&pgtype=Homepage) >"I’ve raised them to be confident and to advocate for themselves. Now here I was saying, don’t do it with the police."