"Stripper Web trained new girls like me to harness the power of money against the men who wielded it. Any dancer could read hundreds of posts about which clubs were rife with managers extorting dancers for money and sex. Nowhere else could I find strippers speaking openly about extras (slang for sexual services) or how to handle a customer who wanted more than I was willing to offer. It taught me how to respond to boundary pushers: Tip me now or get kicked out. In my first week dancing, a customer pulled out his dick during a lap dance. I told him to give me $200 or put it away; he put it back in his pants."